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In this episode of Finding New Waters, Dr. Brian Licuanan, a licensed psychologist and author of How to Get Your Resisting Loved One Into Treatment, shares invaluable insights on supporting loved ones through addiction and mental health challenges. Dr. Brian explains how family systems, boundaries, and assertive love can reshape the recovery process. With a focus on combating manipulation, setting effective boundaries, and fostering unified family support, he offers practical strategies for creating lasting change. Listen in as Dr. Brian discusses his approach to helping families regain hope and navigate the complexities of resistance in treatment.
Timestamps:
 • [00:00] Introduction: Welcome and overview of the episode.
 • [01:00] Meet Dr. Brian Licuanan: Dr. Brian introduces his clinical practice and his work with families and individuals in recovery.
 • [04:00] The Importance of Assertive Love: Redefining tough love and the role of family boundaries in recovery.
 • [08:00] Shutting Down Manipulation: Dr. Brian explains how families can address and counter manipulation by loved ones struggling with addiction.
 • [13:00] Empowering Families: Why the family unit must operate as a cohesive team with shared responsibilities.
 • [18:00] The 80/20 Model: Understanding the balance of legitimate struggles versus manipulation in addiction.
 • [24:00] Overcoming Resistance: How providing choices and addressing barriers increases the likelihood of treatment acceptance.
 • [30:00] Recovery as a Lifelong Journey: Dr. Brian discusses his broader view of recovery as a path for all, not just those with addiction.
 • [36:00] Closing Thoughts: Dr. Brian shares resources and how to access his book and services.
Key Points Discussed:
1. Revising Family Strategies: Families often feel helpless, but Dr. Brian emphasizes that changing strategies can yield better outcomes.
2. Boundaries with Compassion: The importance of setting clear, enforceable boundaries while maintaining love and support.
3. Shutting Down Manipulation: Identifying and countering the tactics used by addiction to perpetuate destructive behaviors.
4. The Power of Assertive Love: Balancing love with rules and accountability to support recovery.
5. Hope for Families: Why families must stay hopeful and unified to influence their loved one’s path to recovery positively.
Guest Bio:
Dr. Brian Licuanan
Licensed Psychologist and Author
Dr. Brian Licuanan is a licensed psychologist based in California, specializing in addiction, mental health, and family interventions. With nearly 20 years of experience, Dr. Brian has worked extensively with families to navigate the challenges of supporting loved ones in recovery. He is the author of How to Get Your Resisting Loved One Into Treatment, a step-by-step guide offering practical strategies for families to foster change. Dr. Brian’s expertise spans private practice, community outreach, and educational talks, all aimed at reducing stigma and promoting mental health awareness.
Resources Mentioned:
 • Dr. Brian Licuanan’s Website: https://drbrianlicuanan.com
 • Book - How to Get Your Resisting Loved One Into Treatment: Amazon, Barnes & Noble
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Powerful Quote:
"You can’t love someone out of their disease, but you can love them enough to set boundaries that save their life." – Dr. Brian Licuanan​

Breaking Barriers: Dr. Brian Licuanan on Family Interventions and Navigating Addiction Recovery